Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Don't restrict kids...

Phew....The last week had been damn crazy with fever and runny nose. And now with full of energy, I start to write this week's blog post.

                                   Don't climb on that, you will fall....
                                  Don't go into dark room, the ghost would catch you....

These are some classic examples of a parent restricting her child from trying a simple and natural movement like climbing. I hear these a lot from my aunt and now my 2 year old cousin fears even to go to nearby room. It seems that the modern parent is also terrorised by the most functional movement. I've actually lost count of the number of times I've heard my neighbour tell his 3 year old son that he will fall and break his bones if he runs.

Such reminders only inhibit children from trying different movements. There is no point in complaining later that children are inactive. Fear of injury is one side of the coin. The other side sees some parents push them into serious sports at a very early age to live out their dreams through their children. There has to be a holistic approach when it comes to encouraging kid in sports. As a parent, one should not restrict a child; but provide them a safe environment to explore.

Kids tend to copy their parents. If you get back home only to sit and watch TV, the chances of your child being active are bleak. So start introducing children to playground and some fun exercises.


Monday, September 3, 2012

As I am suffering from cold and fever..:(

                                       As I am suffering from cold and fever.....
 No matter what is or isn’t standardized  in India, there is one thing that is completely standardized, on which people are educated perfectly from their 4th grade in school, which is passed on till the date that they retire from employment. That is, writing a letter requesting a grant for a leave of absense...:)

Looks very simple....a very simple and easy reason to say, but  suffering with runny nose and fever and enduring with it is really a herculean task. And I am too suffering now..:(


People do not tend to develop themselves with the skill of making their leave application look any better, and they just want to continue with this culture till the end of the world it seems.


And now "As I am suffering from fever, I am not able to write this post further..:D"

Journey of a Girl - Part 2 :)

Wow....Journey of a Girl beautifully portrayed in this recent advertisement.  Really an alluring video...!!



P.S. I am not an endorser :P

Courtesy : Jos Alukkas

Sunday, September 2, 2012

Journey of a Girl

The baby girl, the apple of everyone at home. She is like the butterfly with most vibrant colors of the universe.  We all read, feel and understand her identity, yet, we treat her as per our convenience and whims and fancies.

The little angel who is a girl is beautiful, soft, loving and charming....the creator of a family. It is such a pleasure watching her, listening to her sweet melodious voice,her delicate approach towards life, the rolling tears in her eyes at the slightest scoldings .

What follows is her schooling. She goes to school in the spotless crisp uniform.She is academically conscious about her performance from the first day. She tries her best to be in the good books of all the teachers, score highest marks in all the subjects, never be punished by any teacher. She wants to remain disciplined in front of her fellow boys. She craves to be appreciated in front of other girls.  She has big career goals and high ambitions in life. At home, she is a helping hand for the other family members. She is expected never to misbehave, back answer or be rude. She tries to comply with all the conditions.

Next is the phase of young lady. Life is lovely and so are her dreams. Here comes the awareness of the  Prince waiting to carry her off in his horse to distant lands where she will have only happiness. She dreams of sinking into his arms & living happily ever after.
There is eventually a tug of war between her parents and her to find the “Mr. Right”. All this goes on while she is advised to improve her grooming sense, dressing sense,culiniary expertise and responsibility handling. She is made aware of the fact that she needs to conduct herself well enough to be able to handle a family independently. She is made health conscious. Every time she develops a soft corner for anyone , she either pulls herself back voluntarily , or is forced to pull herself back for she is not sure of the person who would finally hold the strings of her life. She is at a threshold with all her grace, beauty, emotions to shower on her soulmate. 
 New life, new atmosphere, new experiences, new power and responsibility.

 The last and final Phase is the most interesting and challenging. The phase of rediscovery! Rediscovering the youth in her obviously. Children have gone their way & grandchildren are finding theirs.  A phase when time is available aplenty but physically she can’t cope up with all she wants to do.  After all nature has ordained her with a great amount of emotional strength. She achieves all her dreams or at least tries to. For as they rightly say, AGE IS ALL IN THE MIND.

Coming Out Of Hibernation

Argh..... Only one blog post so far this year, I’ve been totally stacked. I've been exhausted and bogged down with too many works swirling around in my head.

Lots have been changed in my life...:) 
Strange feeling creeps my mind saying that "You are not a kid anymore..:( "

I’ve not found the time to blog – everytime I think about it I feel it needs to be something big and shiny as it’s been such a long time… so today I decided just to post a little something to get back in the swing of things. 


Friday, February 17, 2012

Life is what you make it

I ended up reading Preeti Shenoy's Life Is What You Make It.  Yes, one look at the front cover of Preeti Shenoy’s novel ‘Life is What You Make It’ and I fell madly in love with her, she made me poetic and I read the book in 3 hours. It is a well crafted and synchronized novel, in which emotions are intensely described.

Monday, September 12, 2011

Am Back..!!!


Ladies and Gentelmen !!
WE are proud to Have with us  the Girl  who Probably was missed by millions and millions of bloggers across the world galaxy Universe  .The girl who created ripples in the blogoshpere by her ever entertaining posts . Whose blog became the only source of entertainment for all the people in the times when the parasite boredom creeped in .
Let us Welcome the amazing ,ever stunning
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