The baby girl, the apple of everyone at home. She is like the butterfly with most vibrant colors of the universe. We all read, feel and understand her identity, yet, we treat her as per our convenience and whims and fancies.
The little angel who is a girl is beautiful, soft, loving and charming....the creator of a family. It is such a pleasure watching her, listening to her sweet melodious voice,her delicate approach towards life, the rolling tears in her eyes at the slightest scoldings .
What follows is her schooling. She goes to school in the spotless crisp uniform.She is academically conscious about her performance from the first day. She tries her best to be in the good books of all the teachers, score highest marks in all the subjects, never be punished by any teacher. She wants to remain disciplined in front of her fellow boys. She craves to be appreciated in front of other girls. She has big career goals and high ambitions in life. At home, she is a helping hand for the other family members. She is expected never to misbehave, back answer or be rude. She tries to comply with all the conditions.
Next is the phase of young lady. Life is lovely and so are her dreams. Here comes the awareness of the Prince waiting to carry her off in his horse to distant lands where she will have only happiness. She dreams of sinking into his arms & living happily ever after.
There is eventually a tug of war between her parents and her to find the “Mr. Right”. All this goes on while she is advised to improve her grooming sense, dressing sense,culiniary expertise and responsibility handling. She is made aware of the fact that she needs to conduct herself well enough to be able to handle a family independently. She is made health conscious. Every time she develops a soft corner for anyone , she either pulls herself back voluntarily , or is forced to pull herself back for she is not sure of the person who would finally hold the strings of her life. She is at a threshold with all her grace, beauty, emotions to shower on her soulmate.
The last and final Phase is the most interesting and challenging. The phase of rediscovery! Rediscovering the youth in her obviously. Children have gone their way & grandchildren are finding theirs. A phase when time is available aplenty but physically she can’t cope up with all she wants to do. After all nature has ordained her with a great amount of emotional strength. She achieves all her dreams or at least tries to. For as they rightly say, AGE IS ALL IN THE MIND.
The little angel who is a girl is beautiful, soft, loving and charming....the creator of a family. It is such a pleasure watching her, listening to her sweet melodious voice,her delicate approach towards life, the rolling tears in her eyes at the slightest scoldings .
What follows is her schooling. She goes to school in the spotless crisp uniform.She is academically conscious about her performance from the first day. She tries her best to be in the good books of all the teachers, score highest marks in all the subjects, never be punished by any teacher. She wants to remain disciplined in front of her fellow boys. She craves to be appreciated in front of other girls. She has big career goals and high ambitions in life. At home, she is a helping hand for the other family members. She is expected never to misbehave, back answer or be rude. She tries to comply with all the conditions.
Next is the phase of young lady. Life is lovely and so are her dreams. Here comes the awareness of the Prince waiting to carry her off in his horse to distant lands where she will have only happiness. She dreams of sinking into his arms & living happily ever after.
There is eventually a tug of war between her parents and her to find the “Mr. Right”. All this goes on while she is advised to improve her grooming sense, dressing sense,culiniary expertise and responsibility handling. She is made aware of the fact that she needs to conduct herself well enough to be able to handle a family independently. She is made health conscious. Every time she develops a soft corner for anyone , she either pulls herself back voluntarily , or is forced to pull herself back for she is not sure of the person who would finally hold the strings of her life. She is at a threshold with all her grace, beauty, emotions to shower on her soulmate.
New life, new atmosphere, new experiences, new power and responsibility.
The last and final Phase is the most interesting and challenging. The phase of rediscovery! Rediscovering the youth in her obviously. Children have gone their way & grandchildren are finding theirs. A phase when time is available aplenty but physically she can’t cope up with all she wants to do. After all nature has ordained her with a great amount of emotional strength. She achieves all her dreams or at least tries to. For as they rightly say, AGE IS ALL IN THE MIND.
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Very Beautiful post. Reading your blog after long time
Very well Captured the true feelings of a girl..
Loved it especially the line "the Prince waiting to carry her off in his horse to distant lands where she will have only happiness."
So,in which phase you are? :D
Very Beautiful blog and the lines in your post add more beauty to it
"Am Back" post was also very good...Visiting ur blog for the first time
Also subscribed your blog through email
From your previous posts, came to know that u r a college goer..so u r in young lady phase :)
The PRINCE who is going to hold ur hands must be a lucky person definitely.
Such an intelligent girl in this era..!!
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